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Dear Delriece...
I have been seeing my boyfriend for about 8 years now ... he's 27 and
i'm 24. I have had short readings about 3 times from different persons.
They all agree that: we belong together, we are astrologically good
together he's a cancer i'm a virgo (on the cusp of leo/virgo), and that
there is a female in his family that doesn't want us to be together and
trying with all their might to kill our relationship. He doesn't have
any sisters, just an older brother. His mother and I get along well
together. His brother's wife and I don't talk much .... because I kind of
get a weird feeling when I'm around her with my boyfriend and or their
family ... like you can tell when someone's watching you behind your
back or something. My last reading I had, it was revealed that it "felt"
like it was the sister-n-law. Should I let it go or should I try to
get closer to her or what? I was told that our love was stronger than
any negative force this female could throw at us and we will bea!
t her. I really just want to find out what's the deal with this
feeling or what's the problem?
Virgoskies in Bahamas
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Dear Virgoskies,
An interesting aspect of tarot cards is that the meaning may become clear later on. In the meantime, don't let yourself get worked up over something that may not be there. Look for smoke before you stamp out a fire! If you think that his sister-in-law is actually acting in an uncomfortable way, go ahead and talk to her about it. Don't be accusational or she will be on the defensive. Instead, take some time out to get to know her. Perhaps invite her and her husband over for dinner and make a friendly night out of it! Let her know that you want to be friends if possible.
Light!
Delriece
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1/8/02
Dear Delriece...
I really, really need some advice please. I I am desperate and am
totally confused.
Before I had asked you about the sister-n-law but it's gotten bad!
My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 years now but just recently
about 5 days ago he got mad at me and broke up with me and didn't tell
me why. I really love him and wish to be with him. I'm really
depressed and sad. I feel like my heart is exploding or atually breaking in
two. The 1st psychic reading I ever had said that we were meant to be
together and that we will. I also had about 2 others that said the same
but recently after christmas 2 readings says that he's not for me and
that there's another man interested or about to be interested in me. I
just can't get that. I don't want him, I want Linc. He's my next door
neighbour. I'm deeply in love and I know he loves me. Do you see us
together again ever in life married? Is there a spell to find out his
true feelings for me. I don't want a "love" spell to keep him with me
or anything like that ... that's just wrong. But he's not speaking to
me and I'm dying inside. I was waiting to see if he'd call me ..!
I ws giving him space ... but it looks like we've broken up.
Please help me. I really think we are attached some way some how. I'm
hurting bad. His B-day is July 6th 1974 and mine is August 23rd
1977.
Virgoskies in Bahamas
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Dear Virgoskies,
I'm happy to help you, but there's something wrong here. I do tarot readings every day and please listen to me when I tell you this. When you ask for many readings in a short time span on one subject it is not good for you. Your emotions about previous readings begin to influence the outcomes. The cards begin to show many paths. The cards are meant as a message from Spirit, not dice to be rolled again and again until you get the right answer. I'm afraid I must decline giving you a reading right now. Although I am a confident reader, I know when it is best to advise you to take control. You are in control of your own destiny!
Break-ups are difficult and you need to find out what he is thinking. Communicating with him is the only answer. I suggest you write him a letter asking him how he feels. Give him the options you are willing to give. You may wish to tell him that you want to be with him, but that if he doesn't want you anymore then he needs to give you closure so that you can walk away. It's the hardest thing a person can do sometimes, but it may be best for the both of you. I can't force you to take my advice, but I suggest that you take a rest from tarot readings on this subject for a time.
Light!
Delriece
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3/13/02
Okay, now I'm lost.
Just found out that my boyfriend has a "relationship" with this girl
Raquel.
He says that she loves him and he loves her but not the way that he
loves me. He says he wants to marry me and he loves me more. Blah, Blah.
I have a feeling he's been telling her that he loves me as a sister or
something.
I have been through a bunch of these "relationships" with him through
the course of our 8 year going on 9 year relationship.
Okay, I laid off of the psychic readings as such and not used candles
(still meditating though) trying to get positive results.
My last 2 were recent (I had sent requests a while back and just got a
reply)! One said we were going to get married and the other said move
on! In total over the past 2 years i've had 6-7 readings and 4 says
yes to us being together and 3 says he's not for me.
My trust is shot to the ground and I don't know what to do. My heart
and gut says to try and hang on that what the first set of psychics said
might really happen, that we might really get married and have
children. But my brain says get the heck out of it! I'm trying to not let the
use of psychics fully influence my decisions as it is up to me to act
upon it.
I'm just at a loss for direction. Our relationship has been up and
down, in and out, but we still end up together and we have some good
times.
I am asking God and my Grandmother, Virgina who passed to help me and
guide me.
After all of that ... my question is do you think that I should forget
the mystical stuff and continue to pray and ask my grandmother for help
or is it just a waste of time?
Virgoskies in Bahamas
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Dear Virgoskies,
I spoke with you before about getting multiple readings on the same subject. It just doesn't work! And remember what readings are... they examine the energies at work in your life and then give you advice on the best path for you. These energies can CHANGE, my dear! I'm not going to tell you to forget all "mystical stuff", for indeed, even prayer is mystical. But I do support your idea to stop getting readings as you do not seem to be using them in a productive manner.
Light!
Delriece
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